Continuous Male Orgasms


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by B. Benders

Several years ago I learned that by getting extremely close to the threshold of ejaculatory inevitability and then halting all stimulation and relaxing my sex organ muscles, then charging up to extremely "close" again - repeatedly - I would achieve a continuous plateau stage with emissions orgasms without ejaculating. The resultant intensity of pleasure is possibly three fourths that felt in a full ejaculatory orgasm but potentially unending.  Furthermore, the associated sexual organs exercise, and the learned ability to better control those organs mentally, has greatly increased the scope and depth my sexual pleasure.  It is my opinion that I have learned to enhance and maintain indefinitely the physical events and associated pleasure of an absolutely imminent ejaculatory orgasm.  Intense specific sexual organ vasocongestion, and fluids transport and buildup produce distinct voluptuous pleasures.  The following discussion attempts to teach men how to achieve this continuous orgasm, and to explain the physiological basis of this phenomenon.

My discovery of the continuous orgasm was accidental, but recounting the event may help others learn to separate their emissions orgasm and ejaculatory experiences.  Basically, I got very close to cumming one afternoon, but sensed that my orgasm was going to be weak; so I stopped all stimulation knowing that I could build up to a better orgasm.  I was so close to ejaculating that I had to relax ... like I would when I was trying to piss ... to quell my sense of ejaculatory inevitability.  I resumed penile stimulation and felt greatly heightened erogenous pleasures from touching my penis.  I could stimulate myself very genltly and stay very close to the edge.  I came very close to cumming again and again - relaxing each time - and it felt better and better.  Possibly five "close calls" later, my prostate had swollen and my seminal vesicles hardened and discharged but no semen flowed into my urethra.  Orgasm pleasure emanated from my testes, which were swollen and drawn under the tissue aside my penis.  It felt like I was cumming, but just before I would have to ejaculate.  Possibly thirty minutes into this routine my loin began to ache, so I proceeded to the most intensely pleasurable orgasm and high quantity ejaculation I had ever had.  Afterward my sexual organs continued to radiate with an enjoyable ache.

Once you've done it once, you'll never go back to immediate ejaculations.

At this point I would like to discuss the physiology of the male ejaculatory orgasm.  Reference books describe the event in stages involving sexual organ vasocongestion, rising to the plateau stage, then the orgasm.  The orgasm consists of internal sexual organ emissions and then the ejaculation reflex response.  Events beyond the plateau phase can be broken into many additional stages.

My first orgasm pleasure sensations come from my testes, which draw up into my body.  When men first sense the arrival of an orgasm, those feelings emanate from the epididymis and the spermatic cords, which swell and spasm to move sperm up the ductus (vas) deferns into the ampullary gland or ampulla.  The ampulla filling with sperm accentuates pleasure from sexual stimulations.  Continued penile stimulation soon triggers a hardening (intense vasocongestion) of the seminal vesicles, which also discharge some fluid toward the prostate.  The sperm and seminal fluid in the ampulla is driven down into the two ejaculatory ducts, which pass through the prostate to values on each at the urethral bulb.  At this point the prostate swells, and expands size of this urethral bulb.  The urethral bulb is a wide zone of the urethra inside the prostate.  This zone is the final temporary storage area for semen just before ejaculation.

Sufficient pressure quickly builds at the ejaculatory ducts to trigger a pronounced swelling and hardening of the prostate, and the ejaculatory ducts valves open.  The prostate hardens to expel its contents, and this point marks the crossing of the threshold of ejaculatory inevitability.  The combined fluids mix and accumulate in the urethral bulb, but are held back from being discharged toward the penis by one last sphincter located below the prostate.  Semen pressure builds in the urethral bulb, and this pressure triggers the ejaculatory response.  Semen is ejaculated in a distinct sequence of partially mixed emissions: 1. prostatic fluid (10%); 2. sperm (2%) and ampullary gland fluid (6%); 3. seminal fluid (70%) and again; 4. prostatic fluid (12%).

Note that there are valves at the ejaculatory ducts and that fluid pressure triggers the ejaculation reflex.  I evidently orgasm and enjoy erogenous sensations from intense vasocongestion, emissions of sperm, ampullary gland fluid, and seminal vesicle fluid to the ejaculatory ducts valves, but without opening those valves or triggering ejaculation. I have trained myself to lock the ejaculatory duct valves closed during these emissions.  The key is WHEN YOU GET VERY CLOSE TO EJACULATORY INEVITABILITY COMPLETELY RELAX ALL SEXUAL ORGAN MUSCLES, AND CEASE STIMULATION TO THE PENIS.  The best way to portray this relaxation is to visualize the feeling you create when trying to initiate urination.  Urinary tract muscle and prostate relaxation locks the ejaculatory ducts valves closed, even as the seminal vesicles proceed to harden and discharge.  Ampullary gland fluid, sperm and seminal fluid pressure builds behind the duct valves.  My assumption is that this relaxation of the prostate (which facilitates urination) locks the ejaculatory duct valves closed so as to prevent urine from backing up into the ampullary gland and seminal vesicles.   Stopping stimulation to the penis and relaxation halts the emissions pressure driven progression to the hardening of the prostate and the ejaculatory inevitability.

Sexual organ emissions and muscle contractions, and seminal fluid movement and pressure produce the feelings of an orgasm, and give rise to greatly heightened penis stimulation pleasure.  Getting "close" to the point of seminal vesicle hardening and emissions orgasm at least ten times, involving roughly fifteen minutes of pre-ejaculatory pleasure results in the state of continuous orgasm.  I barely halt an emissions orgasm before stimulating myself to another orgasm - again and again so frequently that the emissions and orgasm pleasure becomes continuous.

With experience and exercise, I have raised the pressure (and pleasure) level required to trigger the ejaculation reflex response.  I sense exactly how much more pressure can build before crossing the threshold to ejaculatory inevitability.  My emissions orgasms are stronger and ultimately continuous without triggering ejaculation.  My seminal vesicles harden right after I have nearly cum; hence they are almost constantly hard and discharging.  My prostate swells without hardening, currently to about just half as large as during a full ejaculatory orgasm.  Finally, my testes, epididymis and especially the spermatic cords radiate a distinct pleasure as they push sperm toward the ampella.  Each of there emissions increase the amount of fluid held in the ampulla and at the ejaculatory ducts, with an associated increase in pleasure and passion of sexual readiness.

The presence of sperm, ampullary gland, and seminal fluid in my ejaculatory ducts is evidenced by sensations I can produce after nearly cumming.  Shortly after ceasing stimulation I can contract my bulbospongiosus muscle and thereby press on my prostate and feel the fluids being pushed back up into the ampulla and seminal vesicles.  This feeling of fluid movement and fullness is very pleasurable.  I can stop masturbating, and hours (days) later still feel the semen in my loins eager for release.  My testes swell, feel full, and are slightly sensitive to jostling.

Notice my descriptions of the physical changes to internal sexual organs that occur during an orgasm and ejaculation.  By placing a middle finger into your rectum the hardening of the seminal vesicles, ampullary gland, and prostate can be palpitated digitally.  Softly massaging the prostate ampulla and seminal vesicles when they are gorged from orgasmic filling is pleasurable.  The ampullary gland is felt when hard during an ejaculatory orgasm as a hard triangular organ, point facing downward, that lies just above the prostate.

PRACTICE GUIDE TO THE CONTINUOUS MALE ORGASM

Learn to maintain indefinitely the physiological events and associated pleasure of the emissions phase of an absolutely imminent ejaculatory orgasm!  Practice at least half an hour, once a day, for probably two months and you will likely gain the ability to enjoy an endless orgasms!

"Getting there is half the fun - be sure to enjoy the ride."

I.  "STOP-AND-GO" MASTURBATING

When you begin to feel an orgasm approach cease all penile stimulation.  Let your level of excitement drop slightly, and then approach another orgasm.   Repeat this stop-and-go approach to an orgasm at least ten times.  Notice that stimulation to your penis feels better and better.  On the tenth orgasm approach bear down hard with your bulbospongiosus (piss stopper) muscle but slow down your stroking as you reach the point of no return.  This reduced stimulation to the penis permits the pleasure of sexual organ emissions drive you to the full ejaculatory orgasm.  Notice the increased volume and intensity of your orgasm.

GOALS:

  1. Learn to resist the temptation of the orgasm.  Just as your penis feels really great to stroke...stop.  You will discover that the avoidance of immediate pleasure will bring greater pleasure. 
  2. Strengthen your sexual organ muscles.
  3. Increase your mental control over orgasms.
  4. Learn to measure the approach of your orgasm.
  5. Feel the emissions phase as separate from the ejaculatory phase of an orgasm.

II.  RECTAL MONITOR

Practice the Stop-and-Go technique.  When you are ready to orgasm lube up your middle finger and stick it up your butt!  Feel around your prostate  (walnut sized organ one to two inches past your anus) then put your finger all the way in, past the prostate.  With your finger probing above the prostate proceed to an ejaculatory orgasm.

GOALS:

  1. Learn how good it feels to massage your prostate and ampullary gland.
  2. Feel how your prostate, seminal vesicles, and spermatic cord swell or harden during emissions orgasms, and then fully harden during ejaculatory orgasms.  The ampullary gland is felt when hard as triangular just above the prostate.  The seminal vesicles are firm cords running down into the ampullary gland.

III.  RELAXATION WHEN CLOSE:

Practice Stop-and-Go approaches to an orgasm, but try to get a little closer to the point of no return.  When you get real close, stop stroking your penis and completely relax all sex muscles.  Concentrate especially on relaxing your bulbospongiosus (piss stopper) muscle, and create the feeling you produce when trying to start urination.  Let your level of excitement drop, but less so, before resuming the approach to another orgasm.  Relax completely each time you are near an orgasm and stop sexual stimulation.  Notice that relaxation helps to extinguish the feelings associated with an emissions orgasm.

GOALS:

  1. Learn to resist the lure of an ejaculatory orgasm that is now closer.  You must relax just when your piss stopper muscle would naturally bear down, and stop stroking just when it feels really good.
  2. Learn to more quickly resume penile stimulation after stopping.
  3. Learn to get closer and closer to ejaculatory inevitability without passing that reflex threshold.

IV.  CLOSE RELAX CLOSE RELAX SO CLOSE

Build up your level of sexual excitement first with at least five stop-and-go sessions, then try to get REAL CLOSE to an orgasm and RELAX all sex organ muscles.  Get so close that you would have triggered an ejaculatory orgasm if you had not become fully relaxed.  Your mission is to feel the orgasm approach for a few seconds even though you are not stimulating your penis.  The lure to stroke yourself is very strong at this point but resist!  With practice you will briefly enter the sex organs' emissions phase without ejaculating.  Relaxing will suppress your ejaculatory reflex response and help keep semen retained behind the ejaculatory ducts valves.  Semen pressure will build in the ampullary gland.  A gentle finger massage of the prostate and ampullary gland once they are gorged from emissions is pleasurable.

GOALS:

  1. Learn to resist the lure of an orgasm you have actually begun.  The temptation to continue stroking yourself is very strong at this point.
  2. Practice this exercise until you enter the emissions phase fully relaxed.  Your seminal vesicles will harden and discharge into your ampullary gland, but no fluid should leak into your urethra.
  3. Observe how much better penile stimulation feels when your loins are gorged with sperm, ampullary gland, and seminal fluids.
  4. Learn to vary penile stimulation by site, and by intensity.
  5. Expand your mental control over what was previously an uncontrollable cascade of sexual organ events.  You are increasing the number of brain cells you devote to sex.

V.  SEMINAL VESICLES HARD FIVE-TEN TIMES

Build up sexual tension with several close stop-and-go approaches, and then proceed to the threshold of the ejaculatory reflex.  Be careful to cease stimulation and relax fully just as you begin to enter the emissions phase of your orgasm.  Sometimes at this point your seminal vesicles will harden. You will notice a distinct feeling inside your rectum when your seminal vesicles harden.  Let your excitement wane, then come close to the point of no return again.  Practice reaching the ejaculatory reflex threshold so that you harden your seminal vesicles at least five times. Semen will accumulate each time the seminal vesicles harden.  Now contract your bulbospongiosus (piss stopper) muscle and feel semen push back up into the ampullary gland...FEELS GOOD!  Notice the increased quantity of semen ejaculated when you finally cum.

GOALS:

  1. Build up semen pressure behind your ejaculatory ducts valves.
  2. Manipulate the fluid in your internal sexual organs.
  3. Learn to harden your seminal vesicle without causing ejaculatory contractions or leaking semen.

VI.  RESIST THE ULTIMATE TEMPTATION

Gorge your internal sex organs with semen, reaching seminal vesicle hardening at least five times then stop...take out the trash or something.  Be careful to protect your tender balls.  Let your level of excitement drop completely, and then resume the seminal vesicle hardening.  Be very careful to build up your excitement slowly with a few stop-and-go's before attempting a seminal vesicle hardening.  Proceeding too fast can cause uncomfortable leakage of prostatic fluid.

GOALS:

  1. Learn how much excitement is required before attempting a seminal vesicle hardening.
  2. Stop your masturbation session for at least two hours.  You will be totally horny.  Resist the lure! 
  3. Try to spend one night with your sex organs gorged.  You will likely experience vivid sexual dreams.
  4. Gain complete control of when you have an ejaculatory orgasm.

VII.  SO CLOSE CONTINUOUSLY

Build up to five seminal vesicle hardenings, relax and fill your ejaculatory ducts, then contract your piss stopper muscle and push the semen up into your ampullary gland.  Get as close to your ejaculatory orgasm as you can without crossing the reflex response threshold.  Now practice close-relax-harden-contract, and again close-relax-harden-contract repeatedly, in rapid succession.  Ultimately, you will enter a state of nearly continuous orgasm emission phases.  Your swollen testes and throbbing spermatic cords will orgasm.  Orgasm emission pleasures from your ampullary gland are amplified by the accumulating fluid and especially fluid pressure in your ejaculatory ducts.  The rapid succession of emissions orgasms becomes a continuous orgasm without ejaculation.

GOALS:

  1. Learn to harden your seminal vesicles at will.
  2. Learn to harden your seminal vesicles in rapid succession.
  3. Practice staying very close to an ejaculatory orgasm, almost continuously feeling a hardening of your seminal vesicles.
  4. Hold your orgasm at the continuous emissions phase endlessly.
  5. Learn to maintain your emissions orgasm mentally; by concentrating on producing emissions, enough semen pressure can be generated to perpetuate those emissions...without penile stimulation!
  6. Learn to stay RELAXED even as you reach the "point of no return," climax and ooze semen from your penis.


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